As competitions come up and tensions get high on competitive
teams, it’s very easy to get overwhelmed and stressed out. That’s why it’s
important keep your cool when those times arise. When Competitions come
practices get more stressful and intense. Practices are longer and more tiring
than normal. It’s important to keep your cool especially when you are being
critiqued or judged. It’s easy to just think about all the negative in those
situations but focusing on what you need to get better on and trying to fix
what you need to fix is all that your team is trying to help you with.
When being critiqued don’t take all the negative comments as
a personal attack on you. Your team is only trying to help you get better so as
a team you can all look together, clean and sharp. It can get stressful, but
just breathe and try to stay with it. Teammates during these, competition,
times can easily get on your nerves as well too. Don’t take everything your
teammates say as serious as you normally would. Routine critiques are
important, but little obnoxious comments that people sometimes say shouldn’t be
taken too seriously during competition times because everyone is stressed and anxiety
in general is already coming from your coach not to mention your already
boiling nerves.
It’s important to have friends on your team. It’s important
to have friends on your team so you don’t feel lonely or left out. Especially when
everyone else are friends, you don’t want to feel like the outcast. When
competition times come it’s important to have friends on your team that can
build you up and help you get through the long practices and critiquing of
others. Sometimes it’s just good to have someone who knows what you’re talking
about and can relate to what you’re struggling with. It’s also good to have
someone you can have fun with on your team. As time goes on I’m sure you will
be able to grow your relationship with the other people on your team and sooner
than later you’ll all be friends.
I agree that it's important to keep your cool. On my cross country team it's also important for us to keep our cool because you may feel pressured and stressed to run well because your team is depending on you and it can be important to just relax and try not to get to stressed out about it.
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